“An 11-year-old girl who threw a stone at a group of boys pelting her with water balloons is being prosecuted on serious assault charges in California. Maribel Cuevas was arrested in April in a police operation which involved three police cars and a helicopter.” *
He goes onto write:
We are a nation frightened of our daughters of eleven? Are girl kids that dangerous? Does any other country, anywhere, fear its daughters? Give me a break.
Plese let us know what you think of a dangerous girl like Maribel.
SO TRUE!
ReplyDeletemy 7 1/2 year old daughter is being attacked by bullies her own age - they are malicious, egotistical, sadistic and I hope they learn empathy before its too late.
And doing battle with the school who wants to turn a blind eye is no picnic.
You hang in there Barbara!!! I hate the bully stuff. You have some great links from your site on the bullys. I bleive abuse is a form of bullying-grown men bullying their women. (Or women their men in some instances). I want to see the day when bullys are seen for what they are and stopped..way to stop? Stand up for own rights and simply don't let it occur--how will you keep your daughter from seeing herself as powerless and a victim? Its tricky, isn't it?
ReplyDeleteVERY tricky - I don't want to protect her totally from life & from being the fantastic woman I know she will be - on the other hand I was badly bullied & beaten in school (by peers and teachers) so I am trying hard not to project that onto this situation. What galls me is how the schools try to MINIMIZE it all (more abuse).
ReplyDeleteI do think that abuse by men (physical, verbal, emotional) is a form of male supremacy & misogyny in action. Abuse and even sex addiction shows a lot of overt & covert rage against women.
Here's a post that illustrates that point: http://fightforjustice.blogspot.com/2005/08/prostitution-and-male-supremacy.html
Of course, I could get into political & government bullying - which also tries to whitewash it. As if being a bully is a desireable behavior. blech
Trying to be a good mother is hard enough without bullies.