Wednesday, April 2, 2014
This video has been added to our free online workshop. She (the character) actually understands the concept that when we "help" them again and again--we actually reinforce the bad behavior and give them no reason to change--many think that we blame the "victim" again for the abuse. Not true. We recognize that you need a new set of eyes to see what is really going on. You help them more by withdrawing your "help" than by reinforcing the bad behavior. Watch, and then watch again!