Wednesday, July 18, 2012

About Verbal Abuse Journals| What Is Verbal Abuse | About Emotional Abuse | About Domestic Violence

Kellie found the abuse in her life and the tool she used was journaling. Writing about it, keeping notes, keeping our mind fresh is very important in the world of abuse--one of themain points to make sure that wehn they say "You're crazy, that never happened." YOu can look in the journal and see sure nuff, it did. Read Kellies story..you might want to try it.

About Verbal Abuse Journals| What Is Verbal Abuse | About Emotional Abuse | About Domestic Violence: "Kellie reached out to others and shared her abusive experience on her blog. The support of her readers helped her find the courage to leave the marriage. Kellie now advocates against domestic violence full-time. Helping women cope with abuse while in the relationship and supporting them as they leave and heal is her passion."

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Sunday, July 1, 2012

Can Verbal Abuse Hurt a Dog?

Well verbal abuse hurts women, men, mothers, fathers, children and dogs? I would say we have to look at it and we know that if someone abuses a dog, they are very likely to abuse their partner. Its a red flag for us. Soooo, how is your abuser with your animals?

Can Verbal Abuse Hurt a Dog? - Yahoo! Answers: "No, I am not crazy... But my dog stayed at my step-grandmother's house while I was hospitalized. There was another dog there (her) dog a pesky little rat we will call a chiuawana or PEPE. This dog would not leave my dog alone for the life of her. I feel my dog got tired of this dog bothering her, and not being walked, I walk my dog 4x a day. Step-GM doesn't walk her dog, just throughs it out in the back yard. Well, my dog peed in house a few times, and when she did **** hit the van verbally to my dog. Call her an embarrassment, you should be ashamed of yourself, I hate your behaviour. I just don't think you should speak down to anything excpet maybe a murder or criminal."

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Monday, June 18, 2012

Telling Lies During Abusive Relationships

Wow--sounds a lot like me---no matter what, I told him the truth--sometimes just to get back at him.
Telling Lies During Abusive Relationships | Verbal Abuse in Relationships: "My abusive husband sapped my sense of humor and dampened my free-spirit, but by golly, he couldn’t shake me of my honest streak. Usually, when he’d rant about my stubbornness, it happened because I wouldn’t lie. I wouldn’t say what he wanted me to say “for the sake of argument.”
He’d get back at me by telling his bosses that I made him late for work with my whining or refused to make the dish for the pot-luck. Perhaps those are lies every spouse tells, but I ws ultra-sensitive to them because of the other crap he dished out."

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Wednesday, June 13, 2012

No Excuse for domestic violence

Domestic abuse happens most places in the world everyday. I'm glad this event is being used to reach the biggest offenders--and now don't get touchy you guys who are the targets--we know you are there--you are NOT being ignored or left out....
News Wales > Business > No excuse for domestic violence: "With the Euro 2012 now underway, football supporters throughout North Wales are being warned that there is no excuse for domestic abuse.
National research shows a clear link between alcohol consumption and domestic violence and North Wales Police will be using the tournament to target offenders and highlight the support available for victims.
Domestic abuse is happening every day in every part of the UK and one incident of domestic abuse is reported to the police nationally every minute. "

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Tuesday, June 5, 2012

New Marriage, 3 Month Old And Verbal Abuse : I Am a Victim of Verbal Abuse Story & Experience

Gosh, I feel so sorry for people like this--A newly wed--if any of the readers here have the time, please go and offer some support--she may not need to leave. She is sticking up for herself now, but if she doesn't learn
how to demand respect and put a stop to his insanity, it will get worse and eventually she will stop standing up for herself--what can you tell her?
New Marriage, 3 Month Old And Verbal Abuse : I Am a Victim of Verbal Abuse Story & Experience: "I am in my mid 20's and just recently got married. My husband has a temper and has become verbally abusive recently. today he got super upset with me because I said we needed to get his car fixed because its not good for baby and me to be stuck at home with no car in case there is an emergency, after I suggested that he called me a "f*cking piece of ****" I asked him not to call me names anymore and then i was cleaning up his dirty dishes and said can you please put your dishes into the dishwasher? and he called me "f*cking scum" he also called me worthless, ******, f*cking waste of space all this happened in a matter of 20 mins today. "

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Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Recover From Emotional Abuse | Emotional Abuse Signs

We like her attitude--has anyone takjen her 7 day course and what do you think?
Recover From Emotional Abuse | Emotional Abuse Signs: "Your abusive partner has worked really hard to “program” fear, neediness, and self-doubt into you.  Incredible, huh?   Why would someone who’s meant to love you, do that to you?
This website is dedicated to making your recovery from emotional abuse quick and easy.  Here, you’ll find everything I’ve discovered in almost 10 years of helping women get over emotionally abusive relationships, and get their lives back."


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Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Couples, How to Stop Verbal Abuse in Its Tracks

: "Couples, How to Stop Verbal Abuse in Its Tracks"


Frustration and anger can lead to mean-spirited, disrespectful communication. We sometimes reach the breaking point and say hurtful or belittling comments, often while raising our voice.
For example, Sarah is watching TV with her husband Erik. A commercial for a fast food company comes on and she picks up the remote and mutes it.
“Hey!” Erik yells. “Why the hell did you do that! I was watching it!”
“Oh, sorry,” Sarah says, turning the sound back on.
“Well, it’s too late now!” he rages. “I missed it. You know that I’ve been wanting a hamburger all day.”
Sarah stares at him, shocked. She hadn’t known that, and how would viewing the commercial satisfy his desire? She’s trying to figure all this out, why he got so mad, what she can do to fix it, when he leaps from the couch and heads toward the door.
“Wait,” she says. “I’m sorry. I thought you hated commercials.”
He turns to her, calls her an idiot and an obscene name, then slams the door.

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